December 16, 2018

Mary at Five

What a big year it's been for Mary. It's crazy how much change happens in a year during these first few 'little' years. From four to five Mary got to travel to nine countries, move back to the states where she was blown away by Walmart, start Pre-K, take swim lessons, participate in a kids running series, and lots more.

She loves dinosaurs and her babies (stuffed animals), Playmobile and Calico Critters (though she mostly still refers to them as 'Sylvanian Families' as that's what they are called in England). She and Finn play like cats and dogs and I savor the times where they are deep in their imaginations playing nicely together! She loves Curious George, My Little Pony, and just about anything Disney (current favorites are Aladdin and The Lion King).

Mary tells me often that she misses England, but she has adapted so well to her new school and new friends. She gives Roscoe a hug every night before bed and bones and dog treats at every opportunity.

She can be a little feisty and sassy, but she also loves to snuggle and gives delightfully wonderful hugs. She will wear her dinosaur costume until it no longer fits and requested a chocolate dinosaur cake for her birthday.

She was very concerned about turning five and expressed some uncertainty these last couple weeks. She said she wanted to stay four a little bit longer and asked why she had to be five, and the sweetest of all was when she asked me in a worried little voice, "will everything change?"

Happy Five, sweet Mary.


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November 18, 2018

Finn and Mary Quotables

What good is it to keep notes on my phone of cute things the kids say if I don't do anything with those notes!? So dusting off the ole blog here to share some quote worthy moments from the kids over the past year.

Finn (said age 7ish)

When our neighbor broke his Lego
"That's ok. You just made a mistake. That's fine. Everything's fine when you make a mistake, you brain just grows."

Laughter coming from the bathroom
Mom: "Finn are you done?"
"No, it was just a fart that made me laugh while I was pooping."

On the playground shortly after we moved back stateside, question from random person:
"Are you training for American Ninja Warrior?"
"No, but at least I am an American!"

Driving by American Cuisine
"Mary might like that place, it's called Waffle House!"

Mary was playing with a dryer sheet and put it on her arm
Mary: "What if I broke my arm and this was my cast?"
Finn: "Well she might break her arm. We don't know how life's gonna go."

Brother Love
"I wish I cloud go back in a time machine and give Cale a different cord and then he wouldn't die. But I don't know how to make a time machine."

Seeing an older man go into Chick-Fil-A as we were leaving
"But I thought he needed to eat healthy foods!"

No School
Mom: Mary you have school tomorrow, but Finn you do not"
"Wait, I don't have school, but Mary does!?"
Mom: "Yup"
"That means it's violent movie day for me!"

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Mary Quotes (said age 4ish)

"Mommy can I have that cookie"
"Are you my little cookie?"
"No."
"No? What are you?"
"A human!"

Watching Hockey on the Olympics
"Mama, I want to do that when I'm a grown up"
"Play hockey?"
"yeah, well maybe not play hockey. I want to be a dinosaur when I'm a grown up."
"Oh you do?"
"No, I mean a firefighter."

You and me both, sister!
"Ughhhh, I don't like these!"
"What?"
"These jeans. I don't like wearing jeans!"

Seeing a woman with a baby
"Dat looks like Jesus"

"My nails are very long. They are becoming black panther claws."

Waiting at the Pediatricians Office
"When are the Doctors going to be here?"
"I don't know, this is taking awhile isn't it?"
"yeah, I think they are tricking us."

Listening to Lion King's "Can You Feel the Love Tonight"
"Oh I like this one! It makes me feel wonderful!"

Sees a UPS Truck
"Mom, I see the box truck!"


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June 13, 2018

Finn at Seven

Seven. 

He has been putting gel in his hair and looking ever so suave, he rides his bike with such confidence (and speed!), he has math skills that blow me away, he is the loudest talker and cannot control his volume to save his life! He is mostly polite, but can be just the WORST listener. He is sensitive and inquisitive and his accent is the best thing that happened this year. And it's been a busy year at that. Since turning six last June Finn has visited 11 countries, 12 if you count the quick stop in Luxembourg for an afternoon. He loves to explore and has been a great little traveler. 

His reading has really taken off and recently he finished his first chapter book. He was so proud and it's really wonderful seeing his confidence grow. But on the flip side he is quick to frustration when we cannot do something or at least do it perfect on the first attempt. Today for his birthday we went to Rebound Revolution, an indoor trampoline place and he was frustrated he couldn't jump from one platform, down to the trampoline, and then up to another platform further away and land on his feet. He face planted, got a bloody nose, and yet despite his frustration he kept at it. And by the time we left he was effortlessly doing the jump at one point he was in tears over.

Legos are still his most prized possession, or as he would say, "they are very precious to me." He is sad to move away (me too, buddy) and will miss his friends "desperately." His little logical mind can be so entertaining. When opening a birthday gift (Legos) he said so matter of fact "this is for 7-12 which is perfect since I'm turning seven." 

He can still eat his weight carbs, thinks his burps are so funny, and could spend hours outside climbing trees and playing with friends.

 He’s all kinds of wonderful and today he is seven. 















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March 31, 2018

March 2018

Seeing as though it's Easter and in keeping with the theme of Resurrection. . . .a new blog post!

March was a FAST month. We started the month going to Cambridge for the weekend where I ran a horrible half marathon, but we were glad to finally check off Cambridge from the UK bucket list. People said it's a lot like Oxford, only more spread out and I think that's pretty accurate. Whereas Oxford has a fairly small city center with lots of beautiful buildings (colleges, churches, etc) and local landmarks all within a small radius, Cambridge is much more spread out with a residential pockets mixed in whereas Oxford has more of a city and suburb feel to it. While there Finn lost his first tooth! At over 6.5 he has been anxiously awaiting this momentous event! And just this past week he lost his second one!






Then mid month a dear friend of mine came to visit with her daughter. Julie is a baby loss friend I first met in Chicago in 2013 for a big meet up. I was so grateful for her visit and to get to play tourist with her both here in Oxford and a trip to London.






A little over a week after Julie left ANOTHER baby loss friend of mine got to come out for a visit! Sonja and her husband enjoyed a kid free vacation in London and then she took the train out to spend a couple days in Oxford. Getting to see not one, but two of these special friends was so wonderful. 



Also worth remembering - the kids dressed up as their favorite storybook character and Mary wanted to be a dinosaur (thankfully my mom had just sent and ABC dinosaur book) and Finn was a thrown together Harry Potter.



Miles has been busy working on his thesis (due next month) and I'm currently in the thick of training for the London Marathon (the day before said thesis is due). Our time here is going too fast and it's only going to get busier!



early March also brought another snow day!


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February 15, 2018

Valentine's Day 2018

The kids have their half term break this week which means that I don't have to bother with any of the Valentine's Day madness that consumes the states! I think it's fun for kids to have a run little day, but mercy, it's gotten out of control hasn't it?! And I'm just as guilty. When Mary was a baby I mailed out valentine pictures of the kids! Which meant I took their pictures ahead of time. Gross.

I wasn't even going to bother with pictures today, but then thought about how annoyed I was that I didn't take any pictures in 2016 and at six and four my kids are still young enough to tolerate such nonsense. Plus it literally took me five minutes. Make a Lego heart, throw on some red, tell a fart joke to get a good smile, DONE.

Happy (belated) Valentine's Day.


Bought this cheap shirt at Target three years ago. 
Finn has worn it each Valentines day and it actually finally fits this year!

 Previous Valentine's Day Photos:
2012
2013
2014
2015
2017

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